8/14/2022

Ronald L. Wolfrum

 Ronald L. Wolfrum's grave is in 

National Cemetery of the Alleghenies

https://goo.gl/maps/6BhrVQtSaE1XQK9z9  
There are photos in the left frame at the bottom.
I watched the birth of Ronald, September 13, 1954.
Ronald died from cancer.
He had a tumor as large as three softballs, which prevented food from entering his stomach.
Ronnie died in 2017.
He died on his birthday September 13, 2017.
He came to visit his parents before he went to the VA hospice.
He knew he would die in the hospice.

A vehicle came to transport him to the hospice.
I'll never forget the horrified look on his face as he boarded the vehicle.
I felt his warm body after his death.


What was your mom like when you were a child?

My mother was concerned about my health and education. She helped me to learn my abc's and counting to 100. She got some cod liver oil, and had me swallow little tablets.


I remember getting my butt beat with a switch, but I don't remember what for.

My mother was the bread winner. One of her first jobs was selling shoes at the Charles store in Defiance. I was about a second grader then. She was a cashier in the General Motors Central Foundry cafeteria. That was one of her last jobs.

She had a picture of me in my ROTC uniform on a table in her house, which was when I was fourteen.

8/07/2022

Where did you go on vacations as a child?


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We lived in Defiance, Ohio and Toledo was 60 miles away.
I rode the merry-go-round.
If you could catch a brass ring, it was good to get a free ride. I didn't catch one.
I'm guessing that I was in the first or second grade at the time.
Don Wolfrum, August 06, 2022
  •  Mom took me there also and to Indian Lake amusement park! She would work all night and take us in the morning bless her!
Nancy Rupp, August 07, 2022

8/04/2022

Can you tell us about Grandpa Andy and his wife, child, and farmland?

Can you tell us about Grandpa Andy and his wife, child, and farmland?
Grandpa Andy was born the son of a shoemaker. Cholera epidemics existed at the time of his birth. He had a sister, Eliza. He had two brothers, who I’m aware of; Adam and Jake. Adam was a farm owner; his farm was near Ayersville, Ohio. Jake was another brother. Jake worked at the Defiance County road department. Andy married Catherine Kaestner, who was a neighbor. Andy’s ancestors lived in Germany, and his wife’s ancestors lived in Germany. Andy had six children; three boys and three girls. Andy built a home. Andy owned the farmland, which the home was on. Andy had income from milk, eggs, and produce. Andy raised fields of tomatoes, and housing for tomatoe laborers were on his farm. He raised and roasted peanuts. Andy made applebutter in two ten gallon pots. Andy buried produce to preserve vegetables. Andy’s youngest son, Ralph, inherited Andy’s farm. Ralph’s daughter Brenda has a home on Andy’s farm, Jonathon and Michael; Ralph’s sons are active on Andy’s farm

Can you tell us about Grandpa Andy and his wife, child, and farmland?

Andy and Grandma Wolfrum had an upright piano in their home.

They also had a Victrola.  https://www.google.com/search?q=victrola&oq=Victrola&aqs=chrome.0.0i433i512l3j0i512l7.7609j0j7&sourceid=chrome&ie=UTF-8 

Andy and Grandma had catalpa trees in their yard.

 https://youtu.be/BQHsAvhwCz8 

8/03/2022

What was your first big trip?


 

 

I was a hitchhiker when I was in high school. David Whithans and Daniel Welp were two of my classmates at Concordia, Ft. Wayne, Indiana. David Whithans lived in Chicago, and Daniel Welp lived in St. Louis, Missouri. I hitchhiked about 140 miles to David Whithans home in Chicago, and I hitchhiked about 340 miles to Daniel Welp’s home in St Louis, Missouri. David Whithans lived on South Halsted Street in Chicago, and gangs were present in the area. Any action in David’s area had to take the gangs into consideration. Daniel Welp’s father was in charge of a children’s home. I participated in washing and drying of clothing during my visit.
 


Attribution:
Kevin William KellyCC BY-SA 4.0, via Wikimedia Commons

8/02/2022

Henry McCarty

 



These are pictures of Henry when he was a baby.
He has been diagnosed with leukemia. He is my grandson, and he'll be four years old in July 2022. He is doing well as of August 14, 2022

Henry's car

7/31/2022

What were your grandparents like?

 What were your grandparents like? Sunday July 31, 2022

My grandparents were very kind to me.

 My grandfather was wise, clever, and could see the future. He raised chickens for eggs, he had milk cows for milk, he had all the normal crops, but he raised tomatoes for Campbell's Soup. He sold fresh produce, such as strawberries and tomatoes, to local grocery stores. He sold eggs and produce to local grocery stores. He had peanuts in his garden, and roasted peanuts. I helped milk the cows. He sold milk to the Defiance milk company.  

Grandpa gave a $10,000 gift to each of his children about 1950.

Grandpa gave beef and pork to my mother and father.

Grandpa liked sardines and herring. He liked smoked herring and pickeled herring. He would buy a large container of herring once a year. The container was a gallon or more of pickeled herring.

Grandpa liked peanut clusters. When they went grocery shopping once a week, he would buy a small bag of peanut clusters.

Grandpa had a Whippet car, which he didn't drive, and a Fordson steel wheel farm tractor, which he didn't use. [1] [2]

He set up the rule that only people with Wolfrum as their name could live in the Wolfrum home. Ralph inherited the farm, and was married to Martha. Ralph died, when he was about 49 years old. Martha lived in the Wolfrum home, and took in a partner,she couldn't marry the partner, because it would change her Wolfrum name; removing her from the home. Martha lived there for about 40 years after Ralph died. She died when she was 85.

Grandma Wolfrum was a good cook. She would tell me to get her a chicken. I would, and she would cook it. One time I butchered a mud turtle, and gave it to her. She cooked it, and wanted more turtles. She prepared dandelions for greens quite often. She had asparagus plants, also. She had horseradish plants in her garden. Grandma made sugar cookies topped with one hickory nut. They were softer than commercial sugar cookies. She baked cookies about once a week. Her recipes were secret. Grandma Wolfrum fell down steps in the JC Penny store in Defiance, Ohio and died. Andy was waiting in the car outside the store. He commented that any legal actions wouldn't bring her back. 

Ladies were invited to Grandma's house to make quilts. Several women would be invited to her house, and they would sew on quilts.

Workers would enjoy Grandma's meals at her house. There were quite a few workers, who ate Grandma's meals, at wheat harvest time.

I carried water in jugs to the workers in the fields.

Grandma Layne rotated living with her children. Her husband had died before I was born. She spent the majority of her time with her son Ollie, who lived in Defiance, Ohio. She made and sold quilts. She made good biscuits too. If I remember correctly, she recieved Old Age Pension; $8 a month.

Grandma Wolfrum's Christmas tree ball



Grandma Layne